GOODBYE 2013 HELLO 2014

Now is the time to say goodbye to the old 2013 and say hello to the new 2014.

Are you looking forward to 2014?
I am and i hope i enjoy it because i did not really enjoy 2013 it was a tough year for me. I would not say  that it was a bad year  no year is a bad year. It is just a tough year and that is it. If you were going through a tough time during 2013 do not worry tough times do not last forever. Though times are there to make  you a
stronger person so that you can overcome greater obstacles. "Tough times do not last but tough people do"

You might have made a few  mistakes in 2013 that completely ruined the whole year for you and you wish that you can travel back in time to fix your mistakes but you know that you cannot do that, all you can do is to learn from your mistakes and forgive yourself for not knowing better.

Set new goals for 2014 there must be something that you want to achieve by the end of the year or change about yourself. Some people never have goals like me i never have goals but for 2014 i am going to try something new which is having a goal.

So put on a smile on your face and walk into 2014 with confidence because 2014 is your year. GOOD LUCK !

                            HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!

NELSON MANDELA

He was a father to a nation, and a hero to politicians. He was always humble even through the toughest times in his life and always had faith that our country would have peace and be a better country which it is today.
He is more than extra ordinary and amazing, there are no words enough that can really describe him because he exceeds them all. he is a hero to all of us and i am truly grateful and forever will be grateful for all that he had done for us because most of us wouldn't be where we are today.
Rest in peace Tata Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela we will always miss you.   

"I have fought against white domination, and i have fought against black domination. I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. It is an ideal for which  i am prepared to die." -Nelson Mandela

No mountain is too high

People allow life  to let them down and then they give up and are afraid of moving forward with life. When God created you, he said that "a human is in control." Life has its ups and downs and there are some things that will happen in life that no one can ever try to avoid.

Sometimes you could be going through a very tough time and having problems that make you want to give up in life, think of what others are going through and that will make you realize that your problems are not so bad after all. Be careful of what you keep in your mind because your life can also be shaped by your thoughts. Don't surround yourself with campers and quitters they have a very negative effect towards people who want to succeed in life. Campers are more than comfortable with whatever they have good or bad. They don't strive  for better things in life they just sit there and do nothing and pretend that everything is normal (they don't really understand what's normal and not normal everything is just the same). Quitters are those people who give up without even trying, they have great ideas but are easily discouraged by the challenges they come across, they don't have faith in themselves at all.

If you want to succeed in life, be part of the climbers, they work hard to make their dreams a reality they go out there and knock on doors until they get opened. They have faith and always believe that there is light at the end of the tunnel and they don't take no for an answer.No mountain is too high for the climbers the sky is the limit.

Social networking sites the latest Drugs

If you are not plugged in a social network you feel out of the loop and missing out. People are starting to get addicted to their phones and that is a very bad thing because i don't think that there is a rehab centre for that kind of problem. Spending more time on these media sites makes a person to spend less time socializing in person with others and reduces their communication skills. It also has a negative impact on relationships because of a partner being more focused on his or her cellphone.

Networking has now transfered all the emotions to the fingers our fingers can cry, be sad and laugh on our behalf. I'm saying this because i have found myself typing in LOL with a face as hard as a brick and i'm not the only one who does that many people do it.

Love

What is love?
The dictionary would probably define the word, as a chemical reaction between two people.
But this meaning is for a nerd. (no offence)

Love can not be defined because it is senseless most of the time and it can reveal the unknown side of you.
Love can expose our worst traits all the jealousy, irrational fears, heated anger while it can also bring out compassion and tenderness. It can also make you behave like the ugliest version of yourself (which i'm afraid of).
It is  not always easy to recognize but it is easy to think about love, to talk about love and to wish for love while we hold it in our hands.